The Thing About Her

 Here's the thing about her: she enjoys chivalry. She prefers doing things alone and lives according to her own terms. She worked so hard to become the woman she is and she doesn't rely on others to build herself. She's self-sufficient. Most importantly, she doesn't need a man to protect and sustain her.


She's often labelled intimidating. She's not afraid to speak off her mind. She knows her worth and will not settle for anything less of what she deserves. She don't allow other people's negativity to pull her down. She doesn't need anyone to make her happy. She knows how to carry her self with grace and dignity.

She understands what she wants and what is important to her. She'll concentrate on the things that will help her grow. She would never put her passion, dreams, peace of mind, or stability at risk in order to stay in a relationship or keep someone. She is aware of her priorities and boundaries. She is well-aware that there are things more valuable than romantic love.

She earns her own money. She is responsible for paying her own bills. She doesn't need someone to comply her necessities and satisfy her wants. She does the housework. She is in charge of the laundry. She prepares her own food. She gets tired at sometime, but it doesn't stop her from taking care of everything and herself.

She is considerate and kind, but she is not submissive. She doesn't let herself be manipulated. She understands when to say no. She doesn't require anyone's approval. She pursues her passions, the things that make her heart skip a beat, as long as they do not cause harm to others. She seeks advice rather than allowing others to make decisions for her. She is capable of cleaning up her mess and dealing with her difficulties.

She has a big heart and fiery soul. She feels deeply, but rarely shows it. She's strong and wise because of everything she's been through. She's not clingy or needy, but she knows how to love rightly. She doesn't need anyone to complete her. She already is. If ever she decides to be with someone, it's not because she needs that person but rather she wants that man.

She's a strong woman, and independence looks good on her.

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