Love and Life

You are struggling with your thoughts as you stare in the mirror and wish you could express self-love, but you failed to detect even the slightest hint of your own attractiveness. You felt like you’re just too ordinary for the world. Too plain to stand out, too average to be noticed. I understand. But I wanted to take a moment to remind you of something truly important: you are beautiful and worthy of love. In a world that often tries to dictate our worth based on external standards, I want you to know that your value goes far beyond what meets the eye. You possess a unique beauty that radiates from within and touches the lives of those around you. The tone of your voice, the proportions of your body, and the vivacity of your face are all lovely. Everything about you is unique, including the way you laugh a little too loudly, the way you leap to your feet when something thrills you, and the way you speak as though you're always rushing and that time is running out and that ...

To the man whose love has transcended time and embraced me with a depth that reflects honor and glorifies God, I am eternally grateful. Your unwavering patience and commitment to our relationship have shown me the true essence of selfless love. You have exemplified the virtues of kindness, respect, and understanding, creating a bond that is rooted in the divine. Thank you for choosing to wait for me, for seeing my worth and recognizing that true love is worth the investment of time and effort. In a world that often rushes and settles for less, you have demonstrated a steadfast belief in the power of God's timing and His perfect plan for our lives. Your faithfulness and devotion have been a testament to the beauty that can unfold when we surrender our desires to His will. Through your actions, you have taught me the importance of setting aside selfish desires and embracing a love that honors and uplifts. You have shown me that true love is patient, kind, and sacrificial, mirr...

  In a world that can often be harsh and unkind, let us strive to be the rays of warmth and compassion that illuminate the lives of others. May we never be the cause of someone else's pain, but rather, be the source of solace and understanding. For in the depths of our humanity, lies the capacity to make a difference, to touch hearts with tenderness, and to mend wounds with kindness. Empathy, like a gentle breeze, has the power to soothe troubled souls and bridge the gaps between us. Let us embrace the struggles and joys of others as if they were our own, for within their experiences lie the lessons that shape their journey. By opening our hearts to truly understand and connect, we can build a world where pain is shared and burdens are lightened. Every word we speak, every action we take, can either uplift or wound. It is in these moments of choice that our character is revealed. Let us choose to wield our words with love and our actions with compassion. May we be mindful o...

  I hope this letter finds you in the midst of your relentless pursuit of your dreams, with your head held high and your spirit aflame. I want to take a moment to acknowledge and celebrate the incredible strength, resilience, and determination that radiate from within you. From the depths of your being, you have carved a path that is uniquely yours—a path that is marked by countless hours of hard work, sleepless nights, and unwavering dedication. You have embraced the challenges that life has thrown your way and transformed them into stepping stones towards success. Your independence is a beacon of inspiration, a testament to your unwavering belief in your abilities and your refusal to let anything or anyone hold you back. You navigate through life with grace and poise, making decisions with clarity and conviction. You know your worth, and you demand nothing less than what you deserve. I want you to know that you are not hard to love. In fact, you are a beacon of love and ligh...

  To the friends who have stood by our side through thick and thin, we want to express our deepest gratitude. In a world where friendships can sometimes be fleeting, you have been a constant source of love, support, and unwavering loyalty. Your presence in our lives has brought immeasurable joy and comfort, and we cherish the bond we share. Thank you for being the friends who never walked away when life became challenging or when we faced adversity. You have shown us the true meaning of friendship – that it transcends circumstances and stands the test of time. Your steadfastness has provided us with strength and courage, knowing that we are never alone in our journey. We appreciate the moments of laughter and shared experiences that we have treasured together. From spontaneous adventures to heartfelt conversations, you have enriched our lives in countless ways. Your friendship has brought light to our darkest days and made our joyous moments even brighter. Your presence has...

In life, we often find ourselves praying fervently for something we desire, hoping that our prayers will be answered. However, there are moments when our prayers seem to go unanswered, leaving us confused and disappointed. It is during these times of apparent disappointment that we may fail to recognize that an unanswered prayer can actually be a blessing in disguise, orchestrated by God.  I vividly remember a particular time in my life when I desperately prayed for a specific opportunity to come my way. I had set my heart on it, believing that it was the path I was meant to take. I poured my heart out in prayer, hoping for a positive outcome. However, as time passed, it became evident that my prayer was not going to be answered in the way I had expected. Initially, I was devastated and questioned why God had seemingly ignored my heartfelt plea. Doubts and confusion flooded my mind, and I struggled to make sense of the situation. It was during this period of introspection that ...

  Lord, if it is not your will, don’t let me hold onto it.   Don’t let me fight for what I need to release. Help me to free what I need to let go of.   Lord, if it is not your will, help me to accept as you take it away from me. Give me the strength to go on knowing that I am better without those things not meant for me. I need your strength to stand strong in the midst of situations that require much of me.   Lord, if it is not your will, give me the wisdom to understand why things don't always go on our way, why we don't always get what we want. Give me the faith to trust in you and the plans you have for me. Lord, if it is not your will, help me to embrace it. I would probably be hurt and saddened. Please remind me of your love and your greater plans. You know better. You know what’s right for me. Lord if it is not your will, help me to stop worrying about it. Give me the peace to hope for the unknown. Lord if it is not your will, give me the obedien...

  Before this year ends, I want to write an appreciation post to the ones who made this year bearable and extra special. Thank you to the ones who provided a safe space for me. I appreciate you letting me share my suffering with you and for not passing judgment. I appreciate your patience as I talked about something I’m still attempting to understand for hours. I appreciate your efforts to enlighten me when I am confused about who I am and how the world works. I appreciate you giving me hope that I still have a wonderful life ahead of me and that I am deserving of healing. Thank you to the ones who became my cheerleader. I appreciate you always having my back, supporting me through good times and bad, and sticking with me when things became tough. I appreciate you being there for me in my times of need and loss as well as being my fervent supporter during my times of joy and celebration. I appreciate you being there for me in my darkest hours and keeping things calm when ev...

We all face struggles in life. Whether you’re the most successful or the wealthiest person, you’d stumble at some point. It’s just inevitable. Problems are just all too familiar for all of us. So today, I am sharing some beautifully comforting verses that I’ve loved and found peace with, many many times, especially during hard times. I hope you will find comfort and peace in these too. 1. For I know the plans that I have for you“, says the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”  Jeremiah 29:11 Imagine how comforting it is to be reminded that regardless of what you are and what is happening in your life, God has plans for you, and those plans are far greater than the plans you have for yourself.  Our God is a good and loving God. His plans for us will never cause us harm, because he meant no harm. So, be assured of the fact that God always has a plan for you and that plan always includes what’s best for you. 2. When the time...

  I know you're somewhere out there. I know you're probably as hopeless as I am right now, about to give up on love because it's been so terrible lately, but I know you'll show up in my life at the most unexpected time, and I know we'll just feel it. My mind wanders and goes to the thought of you more frequently than it should. I envision the sound of your voice, the beat of your heart, and the smell of your body. I imagine the way you laugh, the curve of your grin, and how excited I am to get to know you. But today, as I sat here in the park where everyone is moving in their own rhythm, I came to think of you. All of a sudden, I grabbed my notebook and started writing. The first line is this…this is how I will love you. I am not the most beautiful girl you’ll ever see. In fact, my beauty is below average, and you’d probably not notice me at first glance. But I want you to know that I know how to carry myself. I know how to dress properly and accordingly. I ...